Relations - Source of happiness
Is it important for all of us to have a small motivation? Or is it important all of us to be happy? Who decides this? Is it me or you? We never think of motivation as the first factor, instead look upon the happiness it can provide us. Though the happiness is the most important factor in our lives, all of us desire to be happy, and live a prosperous life. Have we ever thought about what is needed for this happiness?
We have heard people saying motivation is the key towards success. But why motivation is the key towards only success, and not happiness? We could replace motivation with happiness, just because of its importance in our lives. If a poor chap receives a lot of money, obviously he will be very happy. Here I wouldn’t mean that money comes first then happiness. We, in today’s world, have decided altogether that money has its most importance than anything else. We see people break their relations, hate their relations. Isn’t that supposed to our motivation? Has it been eliminated from our lives?
We think of just ourselves when it comes to money in between relations. It used to be relations first, then money. The weight age of money is heavy in today’s world on humans now. And why it shouldn't’t be? We all are working for money, aren’t we? But what about the relations, and so called relationships, have they disappeared?
“I give priority to my relations first. “ I told my brother, and agreeing he said, “Yes, definitely we should. Because life is moving way fast, but if we look back to our ancestors, they were also living in the same world as we are. They used to work, play and live happily as well. What’s changed now?”
“It is relations. It has changed; our perspective of this word has changed. We also work, also play and also live happily, but in a different fashion. We do not want anyone to involve in our life.”
My brother replied that, “Yes, but what can we do in this society, as it has changed. Even if we do not want to be changed, we have to. And it would be also true to me that if someone asks me to use the time machine and go back during those golden days, I wouldn’t. Because I am living in today’s world, I have learnt what people have taught me in this age."
It was a drastic change in the age of the time when people started ignoring each other, not even recognizing our own relations, be it father, mother, brother or sister. One of us stands in a family, and starts earning good. And in the next picture is his own brother who doesn’t want him to earn that much. Is he his own brother? I don’t believe. Do you?
My father tells me that we should have our dinner, at least, together. So we get to know each other more. So we get to know what’s happening in our lives, we should share our views and opinions. And how many of us run away with this tradition! It feels shame for the family who lives together, as if each one of them is paying each other to live together. I wonder how these families would be called “a family”.
No matter what relation you have, you need sincerity and genuineness in it. We hide ourselves from these words, because if we show our face these will smack us straight to our heart. You and me, have a relation, you have to understand this.
Let’s try this. Go home and watch yourself in a mirror.
Looking for happiness?
IT IS THERE, HAVE A LOOK.
We have heard people saying motivation is the key towards success. But why motivation is the key towards only success, and not happiness? We could replace motivation with happiness, just because of its importance in our lives. If a poor chap receives a lot of money, obviously he will be very happy. Here I wouldn’t mean that money comes first then happiness. We, in today’s world, have decided altogether that money has its most importance than anything else. We see people break their relations, hate their relations. Isn’t that supposed to our motivation? Has it been eliminated from our lives?
We think of just ourselves when it comes to money in between relations. It used to be relations first, then money. The weight age of money is heavy in today’s world on humans now. And why it shouldn't’t be? We all are working for money, aren’t we? But what about the relations, and so called relationships, have they disappeared?
“I give priority to my relations first. “ I told my brother, and agreeing he said, “Yes, definitely we should. Because life is moving way fast, but if we look back to our ancestors, they were also living in the same world as we are. They used to work, play and live happily as well. What’s changed now?”“It is relations. It has changed; our perspective of this word has changed. We also work, also play and also live happily, but in a different fashion. We do not want anyone to involve in our life.”
My brother replied that, “Yes, but what can we do in this society, as it has changed. Even if we do not want to be changed, we have to. And it would be also true to me that if someone asks me to use the time machine and go back during those golden days, I wouldn’t. Because I am living in today’s world, I have learnt what people have taught me in this age."
It was a drastic change in the age of the time when people started ignoring each other, not even recognizing our own relations, be it father, mother, brother or sister. One of us stands in a family, and starts earning good. And in the next picture is his own brother who doesn’t want him to earn that much. Is he his own brother? I don’t believe. Do you?
My father tells me that we should have our dinner, at least, together. So we get to know each other more. So we get to know what’s happening in our lives, we should share our views and opinions. And how many of us run away with this tradition! It feels shame for the family who lives together, as if each one of them is paying each other to live together. I wonder how these families would be called “a family”.
No matter what relation you have, you need sincerity and genuineness in it. We hide ourselves from these words, because if we show our face these will smack us straight to our heart. You and me, have a relation, you have to understand this.
Let’s try this. Go home and watch yourself in a mirror.
Looking for happiness?
IT IS THERE, HAVE A LOOK.
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