Have I changed after so many years?
It’s not that men change after some years of their marriage. I have seen some women changed as well. Change is a positive process, if we get prepared mentally about it. If we are not then it could be dangerous process in our relations. We should get rid of it as soon as possible. How?
Ever since human being evolution, this whole universe has also changed. It was something else what it was discovered by the scientists than it is now. When we ask our grandfather or grandmother, or any old person, they will absolutely agree with the change of the climate, of the universe. Same like that change, we change, and there’s nothing wrong in that. This would happen everywhere wherever we see, in all the families; everyone in a family is changing. When they grow, they love doing something different, because they are either bored doing the same thing for so many years or just would like something new to put new life into their lives. But never change your love, keep loving and caring. They way you give love and care can change, but its level shouldn’t come down.
Some people would change because they feel nothing is left in their life except to do things what they have been doping for so many past years. That is really bad for both men and women, feeling bored of their relationship. If one of a couple would change the other would just cry out why her partner changed. Nobody can answer this, but only her partner. Women’s respond to this is – men change. A little in women change which make men change, I would say. If your partner has changed, only he or she can tell why he or she has changed. Nobody can guess that, which I feel is not a guessing game.
Crying out is not the solution to this problem. If we all change and we see everyone crying on ground like hell would make this planet a real hell. We as humans understand who our partner is, but did we really know how our partner was 3-5 years back. We just know our partner now, we love them now. We live in present, never look at past what happened and why, what changed and why. After living under one roof we come to know better what other hidden qualities in our partner are. And what we loved in our partner in “present” then has changed today, because things have changed, times have changed.
Most women complain that men change after marriage. Men are so sweet in the beginning and would do their all efforts to keep their partner happy as ever. Once she is happy, and after marriage men would just change. Men would not even care to hug her, kiss her, and love her. Complaints shall ever be complaints, unless you try to figure out why he changed. If women never change, then they should give it a thought why do their partners change. A man requires change in all aspects, and if his partner understands this she shouldn’t complain about it. In fact she should adjust with him with this change, considering that make your relations consistent. It is said that communication is the key towards everything what we see and what we feel. If really a woman thinks that her partner has changed then why doesn’t she talk to him regarding this change? Ask and know why.
Have you changed?
Ever since human being evolution, this whole universe has also changed. It was something else what it was discovered by the scientists than it is now. When we ask our grandfather or grandmother, or any old person, they will absolutely agree with the change of the climate, of the universe. Same like that change, we change, and there’s nothing wrong in that. This would happen everywhere wherever we see, in all the families; everyone in a family is changing. When they grow, they love doing something different, because they are either bored doing the same thing for so many years or just would like something new to put new life into their lives. But never change your love, keep loving and caring. They way you give love and care can change, but its level shouldn’t come down.
Some people would change because they feel nothing is left in their life except to do things what they have been doping for so many past years. That is really bad for both men and women, feeling bored of their relationship. If one of a couple would change the other would just cry out why her partner changed. Nobody can answer this, but only her partner. Women’s respond to this is – men change. A little in women change which make men change, I would say. If your partner has changed, only he or she can tell why he or she has changed. Nobody can guess that, which I feel is not a guessing game.
Crying out is not the solution to this problem. If we all change and we see everyone crying on ground like hell would make this planet a real hell. We as humans understand who our partner is, but did we really know how our partner was 3-5 years back. We just know our partner now, we love them now. We live in present, never look at past what happened and why, what changed and why. After living under one roof we come to know better what other hidden qualities in our partner are. And what we loved in our partner in “present” then has changed today, because things have changed, times have changed.
Most women complain that men change after marriage. Men are so sweet in the beginning and would do their all efforts to keep their partner happy as ever. Once she is happy, and after marriage men would just change. Men would not even care to hug her, kiss her, and love her. Complaints shall ever be complaints, unless you try to figure out why he changed. If women never change, then they should give it a thought why do their partners change. A man requires change in all aspects, and if his partner understands this she shouldn’t complain about it. In fact she should adjust with him with this change, considering that make your relations consistent. It is said that communication is the key towards everything what we see and what we feel. If really a woman thinks that her partner has changed then why doesn’t she talk to him regarding this change? Ask and know why.
Have you changed?
